The internet is full of relationship and dating advice devoted to what women really think, or what they secretly want. Even when you are in love with a woman it can be hard to understand what she really needs from you as a loving and caring partner. Although no dating advice is perfect, these 12 relationship guidelines will help you to love and respect her even when things get a little stormy.
1. Her Body, Her Choice
This goes for everything from her hairstyle to her birth control choices. Respect her right to choose
2. Always Root For Her
Being her biggest fan is the best way to show emotional support. If you love her, she should always know you are in her corner.
3. Trust And Honesty Are Crucial
If you don’t have her trust, you don’t have anything. Trust can only be built through sincere and honest communication.
4. Work To Keep Her
The journey isn’t over once you’ve won her heart. Many men tend to stop trying once the girl of their dreams is by their side. Show her daily that she was worth the effort.
5. Little Details Make A Difference
Paying attention to the details isn’t just about noticing when she gets a new haircut. Active listening during conversations will help her to feel like you notice and care about the details.
6. You Don’t Always Have To Be The Solution
Sometimes, people just need to vent. When she’s upset, she doesn’t necessarily want you to fix everything for her. Sometimes, it’s enough that you just be there to listen and hug her.
7. Honesty Is Beautiful
Real love is showing another person your true self. If you can’t handle her most secret self or open up enough to share yours then you have to reconsider the relationship.
8. Never Ask Her If She’s On Her Period
No matter how irrational, emotional or upset she is acting, this question is never helpful. It’s rude, and will only cause her negative emotions to focus on you.
9. People Change
The person she is now is not the person she was. Even if she has things she is working on, you can help her to become her best self.
10. You Don’t Have To Understand To Be There For Her
You don’t always have to understand her problems to give her the support she needs to work through it.
11. Put Her First
Women are often in the habit of putting the needs of their loved ones before themselves. Make sure that her needs and interests are being met too.
12. Every Woman Is Different
No piece of advice is perfect for every person. Treat her with the love, respect and kindness that she deserves as an equal.